Sunday, May 15, 2011

Face-Face Time

At present when I look around me it's a bit jarring to see how the days appear to pass by in a blink of an eye. Everyone, including myself, is always "busy."

I notice that when I'm literally running through my week, this all feels normal. This is the way life is supposed to be, no problem. It's only when I take the time to reflect, does it feel extremely artificial. What happened to the days when you could just call someone without having to make an appointment with them or drop in just to visit?

I was at the wedding this past weekend and it gladdened my heart to get some quality time with some of my devotee friends. Instead of having to email, Skype or text someone to schedule a few minutes to hear their thoughts, realizations and engage in an emotional exchange, it happened spontaneously and organically.

That's what happens when everyone is together- there is a chance to actually connect. I have never personally been a huge fan of the telephone or email although its become two of the most convenient mediums to communicate through. There's something about sitting in front of someone and seeing their big grin, hand gestures, head nodding or toe tapping that just can't be translated via an emoticon no matter how creative they become.

These are the moments in time the camera of our mind captures. These are the things that will get us through the doldrums of material existence that each and every one of us will have to face. Whenever an opportunity presents itself to spend time with one another, we should try grab it. In order for us to love Krsna, we need to love his devotees. The easiest way to do that is spend time with them.

However insane my life gets, that's what I want to do. Prioritize spending face-face time with the devotees. Whether it be speaking Krsna katha over a plate of some yummy prasadam or hanging out in a hotel room catching up on on someone's life, it's a valuable gift. Thank you to all those I got a chance to serve with and speak to this past weekend. I cherish it and hope that the opportunity to spend time with you comes soon!

2 comments:

Bhakti lata said...

What a lovely post, Vrindavan! This resonates so deeply for me. I have such a hard time with personally keeping up with people over the phone and e-mail, and I feel so relieved that someone else feels the same!!

The dilemma is that our society and circle of friends has become so worldwide that sometimes the only way to keep in touch for years at a time is over the computer or over the phone.

I'm not sure the last time we actually have seen each other, but I hope that when we do we spend some face-face time together :D (an emoticon will have to do for now; just envision the smile on my face right now)

Unknown said...

My dearest Bhakti! Wonderful to hear from you. I too look forward to the day when we can sit down and spend some time together! I pray that it is soon! xoxox